1) Firstly, accept that Allah Almighty exists and that His attributes are beyond our imagination.
He is capable of everything and anything. Faith in Allah with knowledge
strictly deduced from Qur'an and Sunnah is incumbent . Secondly, accept
that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is the last of a
long line of Prophets that started with Prophet Adam(peace be upon
him), and continued with such notable figures as Prophet
Nooh(Noah)(peace be upon him), Prophet Ibrahim(Abraham)(peace be upon
him), Prophet Moosa(Moses)(peace be upon him), and others.Also,accept
that the Holy Quran is the most recent and true word of Allah
2) Pray sincerely. Affirm that Allah is the closest to you with His knowledge. Always pray on time,
never delay. Never do things that will prevent you from doing tasks
that are of much greater importance. Nothing can be more important than
obeying that which Allah asks of you. For instance, even while working
or studying, halt everything you are doing and go to the nearest mosque
to pray. If somebody were to ask you where you are heading, say that you
are answering Allah's call to prayer
3) Pray in the middle of the night. Pray when most people around you are sleeping soundly. The name of the prayer is Tahajjud. However to perform this special voluntary prayer, you must have some sleep first, even if it is of a very short duration. The night is the most efficacious time to pray.
4) Recite His name every time. Also known as Zikr in Islamic nomenclature (terminology), reciting Allah's name will ultimately make you a strong Muslim because you are constantly reminded of what good He has done for you and all of humanity.
5) Be grateful for everything you have, be it spiritual, mental, or physical.
The more gracious you are, the more you will realize how much you have
been blessed. And, by doing this, Allah willing, you will be stronger
because you will believe that Allah is omnipresent
6) Protect your chastity. You must know that adultery is
a sinful act, and thus must always avoid it. This applies to both men
and women. Women should not wear tight or revealing clothing, and men
should always lower their gaze and be modest.
7) Keep to your promises.
If you feel that you cannot manage something, just inform the other
party as soon as you can. Abiding by sworn promises will ultimately make
you a trustworthy person.
8) Respect the opinion of others. No opinions can be
"bad" or "stupid". You should treat them as gems, or learn to derive
gems from them. Without opinions, things will never get better. If you
do not like an idea, do not invalidate it right away; instead, add on to
the idea to improve it.
9) Fast for the right reasons. Do NOT fast because you
want to impress others or because you want to feel superior in terms of
the popularity you will gain when you get fitter. Fast with the
intentions to please only Allah, and to get the reward for doing so.
Additionally, fast because you will be able to perform your prayers
correctly and effectively and want to be responsible over your health.
Nevertheless, fast in order to relate to those who do not have
privileges like food and water. Fast twice a week, preferably on Mondays
and Thursdays. Fast during the month of Ramadan
and also on the day of Arafah, which is on the 9th of Zulhijjah. Allah
will forgive all the sins you have done for one year before and after
should you fast on the day of Arafah
10) Never lie. It should be
emphasized again. Allah hates his adherents to lie to others. Your
integrity will directly have an impact towards your dignity. People will
look high upon you if you are honest and true to whatever you say.
Unless the lie will actually cover up somebody else's shame or
will avoid distress for everybody, lying is not permissible. For
instance, if your friend has stolen money from his parents, you should
not tell others that your friend has once stolen money.
11) Be good to your family, if you are a man. The Prophet
Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "The best of you is he who is the
best to his family." Accordingly, be kind to them, always support them
12) Struggle towards goodwill. Sacrifice your time and visit the mosque if there is a lecture. Forfeit your property to those who need it more than you do. In other words, always give charity. The recipient will be thankful that you have given them aid in their daily life. Remember, the one who gives is better (in the context of providing alms) than the one who receives
13) Practice felicity towards everything. Be gentle and
good-hearted not only to your parents, but to your cousins, to your
friends, and even to the flora and fauna around you. Always protect your
surroundings. Never ever be aggressive towards animals. You can always
protect the environment by throwing rubbish properly and using public
transportation
14) Be gracious towards your parents. They work very hard
to sustain the lives in their households, which includes bringing food
and other things. Your mother suffered great pains to bring you into
this world. What have you done to say thanks to them? They have brought
joy to your life by buying you presents every now and then. Have you
acknowledged that and appreciated them? Do whatever they expect of you
and you will surely be fine in the eyes of Allah
15) Don't sough over your loved one's death. Know that
Allah did that because He loves your loved ones even more than you do.
Accept that death is a resting phase for your loved ones against all the
trouble this world can bring about.
16) Never waste your Time on useless things. Time is a blessing, make sure the way you use it always comes as fruitful
17) Read the Quran a lot. Think deeply in every
sentence's ((Ayat)) meaning in Quran. Discuss among your friends and
seek for their conclusions. Whenever you find that you can't understand
the main meaning of any sentence, refer to "Explanations of Quran" or
"Tafsir" books from great ethereal persons, or ask a knowledgeable
person. It will keep your iman stronger. It will keep your soul pure.
You'll get thawab for every letter you said. The Prophet Muhammad(peace
and blessings upon him) said, "Two hours of thinking in Quran's meaning,
is better than one hundred years of praying."
18) Try a lot to seek out knowledge, even if it is to be in your enemy’s hands.
Remember though that it is best to learn from authentic Muslim sources
as some websites and books seek to misinform people about Islam.
19) Always think right. Never let evil ideas come into your mind.
20) Keep your body, clothes, housewares and everything you own clean. Use fragrances frequently and dress in warm, modest, and welcoming clothing
20) Keep your body, clothes, housewares and everything you own clean. Use fragrances frequently and dress in warm, modest, and welcoming clothing
21) Always help the poor and orphans by any means possible. Feed them; give them some money, and etc. These have a lot of deeds (thawab).
22) Repent if you have committed a sin anytime. Allah shall forgive you, In Sha Allah. Then, try to not repeat the same sin again. After all, He is the one you shall meet in the after life, so obey his law and He shall give you paradise.
22) Repent if you have committed a sin anytime. Allah shall forgive you, In Sha Allah. Then, try to not repeat the same sin again. After all, He is the one you shall meet in the after life, so obey his law and He shall give you paradise.
23) In order to be a good Muslim, you are obliged to believe in what the Quran and Hadith say, as In the Quran it says "Obey Allah and Obey the Messenger." It is wrong to neglect belief in Hadith, but one should always check to make sure they are sound, or take them from a trusted source like Sahih bukhari or muslim (two books of hadith)[Find out if a Hadith Is Authentic or Not]